One of my favorite blog writers were asked about dating advices and she told her best dating advice. She said that she can give only one, because it's the only one she knows right know. She's still learning, like everyone of us.
She said "go into yourself". Go deep into yourself. Get to know yourself. Recognize your habbits, thought patterns and those little destructive or good ways of living. Everyone has their own. If you don't deal with them, you will end up doing same mistakes over and over again.
You have to look inside of you, meet your demons. Open all the knots and be true to yourself. That's the most important thing to do. You don't want your relationship to become only one extra playfield in your life.
I think this goes hand in hand with sentence you have to love yourself before you can love anybody else. I have always thought that I know what it means, but I have been so wrong. I have started to understand these things lately, in different way than before. I have a long way to go, but at least I have started my journey.
I have started to recognize some of my issues. I have realized how I go around and around in my life. I repeat certain things, do things only one way. It's good to know these things, because it's impossible to grow as a person, if you don't know yourself.
The scariest and hardest part will be when I have to meet my own demons.
Love,
Ambivalent
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